Taking Steps to Get Back with Ex (Girl)

When you’ve broken up with someone you care about you have a hard time thinking of anything but how to get back with ex. If you really serious want this to happen, you’ll probably have to make some changes. Whatever happened to cause the break up should be looked at. Was it something you did, or didn’t do? Is it something that you can still amend it, or is it too late?

If it was something you did or didn’t do and you can amend it now, and then amend it. Undo something, or do something you should have done already. Apologize and make amends. This alone might not promise anything for you to get back with ex, but it’s the first step on the path to getting her back. If whatever happened can’t be amended, then at the very least make sure she knows that you’re sorry and that you'd change what happened if you could.

Now that you’ve moved past what caused the break up, the next step to get back with ex is to make her want you back. That sounds like common sense, but so many people ignore it. If the relationship ended with her angry, then you have to show her that you want to make her happy again. You have to be patient and forgiving. Be as sweet as you can possibly be when you talk to her or see her.

Even if you’re angry at the time or you feel unhappy, at least show her the most pleasant side of yourself you can. Make her remember your good qualities and what she liked about you when you were happy. If she feels you have truly apologized for what caused the break up and she sees your sweet side again, you might be able to get back.

It’s vital to pay close attention when you see or talk to her. Listen carefully and don’t interrupt. Let her express herself without jumping in and telling her how she ought to feel or what she ought to do.You won’t get back with ex by trying to boss your ex around!

You also need to pay close attention to see if your handworks are having an effect. Sometimes you can see that she’s softening to you. She talks nicer when she sees you, and you have been seeing her more often. Maybe she even seeks you out more often than she did previously. Or she seeks you out now after ignoring you for a long time. Your efforts to get back with ex are working!

Because she’s so impressed with how sweet you are, she wants to be around you more. And that only reminds her why she wanted to be with you in the first place. Pay careful attention also if you suddenly stop seeing her as much as before, or she becomes distant or angry talking when you see her. That’s a good sign that you’re pushing and she’s uncomfortable. Take a break and you’ll have a better chance to get back with ex.

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