To Get Back With Ex Forget Your Heart and Use Your Head

Hi, today let’s talk about Heart and Head.

If you're serious about finding a right approach to get back with ex, then it means you're going to have to start using your head and stop following your heart! It really is that simple.

So let's look at this!

Your heart is no doubt telling you to drop everything, run after your ex and make them listen to what you have to say, whether they want to or not. You heart has influenced you that all your ex has to do is to hear and understand just how much you miss, love and want them back and your ex will forget about everything that went wrong take you back on the spot! This is absolutely wrong!

The truth is to get back with ex your head would never tell you to do any of that, instead your head would say back off, get a grip and take your time. Guess which one you should be listening to! Yup, your head!

So, what you should do is leave your ex alone, don't call them, don't try to accidentally bump into them wherever you know they hang out and don't send them love notes – in short make no effort whatsoever to contact them.

By contacting them, you're making yourself seem desperate, a pain in the butt and someone that no right minded person would even want to be around never mind consider dating again.

Like a diamond that increases in value the rarer it is, where your ex is concerned, aim to be rare! Let your ex wonder where you are and why they haven't heard from you and just like that they will want to hear from you and see you.

If you're wedged with a problem and the first person you would usually call is your ex, then you're going to have to figure out how to solve that problem yourself. Not only does this boost up your standing with your ex, because they realize that you can cope on your own, but it also enhances your own standing in your own head.

Listen...

If you figure out how to cook that favourite meal that your ex used to cook for you – you realize you can cope!

If you figure out how to change the oil in your car – again you realize that you can cope!

The art to get back with ex is based in rationale and calmness. Only then will your ex give you the time of day. Whatever fire is burning in your heart for your ex, allowing it to run riot and influence you unduly will only be to your disadvantage.

Therefore, calm the flames of your obsession and instead use the logical! That is what will ultimately help you to get back with ex.

Good luck friends!

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