Avoid break up and forget about to get back with ex. That’s I want to share today.
People say men go to a space by themselves and then figure out a 'solution'.
While...
Women prefer to have someone listen in; authenticate their feeling with words and emotions.
Small example:
Bread forgets to grab the magazine that Farra asks him to pick up on his way home. Farra has had a bad day, and barks at Bread when he shows up without magazine.
Bread, thinking like a man, says he'll go get the magazine after dinner and thinks that'll be the end of Farra's anger - the FIX? (Syyy…actually this action could trigger break up and later forcing you to find a way to get back with ex).
But ...
During dinner he can still sense Farra's anger. Bread returns the anger with anger and the whole 'magazine situation' bursts into war.
Now imagine... If when Bread returned home... (he would've looked deeper and realized this was about more than just the magazine):
Farra: Where's the magazine?
Bread: Oh darling! I totally spaced it out!
Farra: It figures (angrily).
Bread: (Taking Farra in his arms) I can't believe I forgot the magazine. I've been so forgetful lately.
Farra: (cooling down) its okay. It's not a big deal.
Bread: No, it is a big deal. (cupping Farra's face in his hands) I love you darling, you're just as busy as I am and I shouldn't forget such a small request.
Farra: (big smile) Ooooh...I've just had a bad day and felt totally unappreciated. I shouldn't be such a grump. You're so sweet.
Bread: It's okay...I was a bad boy...You can punish me later after I get the magazine. What happened today?
Farra: Mmmmm...(and she tells him about her day.)
Understand the situation and know how to tackle the problem, thus you don't have to solve every problem. If your break up was over 'mother in law'...more than likely...it wasn't REALLY over 'mother in law'.
We call above example the technique of “how to avoid break up and forget about to get back with ex”. Please try it.
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