How to Get Your Ex to Return Your Calls

I'll let you know there are magic words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls.

Sounds hard to believe but there are words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex felt almost duty-bound to return your call. Sound cool isn't?
One of the biggest question for those who are trying to put their relationship back together is goes like this: "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?".

However, if you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy, you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. You need a complete strategy, which you can get it by visiting get-back-with-ex.info.

What NOT to Say
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost never works and worse puts you in an awful 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories:
1. The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like:
"Bread, please, please calls me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I have to talk to you."

2. The EMERGENCY:
"Farra, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
How to Use Curiosity & Self Interest to Your Advantage. Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity & Self Interest. Here's the big secret:

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work like 'magic'. So, let's look at what you can say that works nearly every time. In a friendly tone:
"Hi Bread. It's Farra here. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self interest?

Bread will not be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now, before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing but needs to be plausible but more importantly if you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more damage than good if you do not handle it correctly.

What I am saying is what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is more important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense? Have a plan now to get back with your ex!

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